9. Giving your full attention.

9. 给予充分重视

When speaking with a person, point your toes and square your shoulders toward them. This conveys attentiveness and creates open body language. Avoid angling your body away from them. Lean into the conversation; focus your eyes, ears and energy on them. These nonverbal cues clearly convey you respect, honor and appreciate the opportunity to meet with them. Make sure your arms and legs are uncrossed. Also, avoid multi-tasking during the interaction. Don’t check e-mail, look at your phone, send a text, check the scores, or disengage in any way. It shows disinterest and disrespect.

和别人对话时，脚趾朝着他们并且昂起胸膛。这传递的是专注并且创造开放的肢体语言。不要侧着身子远离他们。专注于对话；专注自己的眼睛、耳朵以及他们散发的能量。这些非语言的线索清晰地表达了你的尊重、珍惜以及感谢这个与他们见面的机会。请确保你的手臂和双腿没有交叉。此外，在对话期间不要做其他事情。不要检查电子邮件、看手机、发短信、了解最新比分，或者做任何分心的事情。这展现的是不关心和不尊敬。